Just like that....

So meeting Jerkboys GF wasn't so bad.

Moving on, I got into a conversation with New Guy yesterday it went a bit like this.

NG: I lost my sunglasses canoeing. I loved those sunglasses so I'm gutted.

Gretta: Well, good excuse to buy a new pair.

NG: I'm rubbish at shopping do you want to come with me we can go for a drink after too.

Gretta: sure that would be fine.

NG: How about getting food as well?

And just like that sunglasses shopping turned into a meal out with New Guy. I don't see it as a date in the slightest. I sure as hell hope he doesn't either.

there could be trouble ahead.

I had an absolutely lovely day yesterday, spent it with some friends at a bbq. However, at the bbq this happened.

As you know JerkBoy has been seeing a girl. This is very odd for me the whole time I've known JerkBoy he's never been in relationship. He told some of our friends that he'd like them to meet her tonight.. Anyway he wasn't at the bbq last night but someone who was made this comment.

"Hey JerkBoy's got a girlfriend and the shocker is.... It's not Gretta".

I hadn't really thought that much about Jerkboy and his relationship lately, but last night was another reminder that I'm not the number 1 girl in his life anymore.

Tonight I have to meet this girl and I'm hoping jealousy or other emotions don't overcome me.

Wish me luck

Social Networking

The Arms added me on facebook. This bodes well we only met on the dating site 2 days ago and he's already added me on facebook. The bad part is now I've seen his facebook he looks like a player. A big, fat player and I'm done with being played. Best Friend says don't rule him out, but the arms is handsome, a pilot, and seems to like his ladies. 5 years ago the arms would have been Gretta's kind of perfect match. In 2010 Gretta wants stability and she's just not sure The Arms will provide that. Guess time will tell.

Meet The Arms.

Just when I thought dating agencies were rubbish, I've met someone with a lot of potential.

He's a commercial pilot for an European Flight company, he's got amazing arms, his emails are witty and make me laugh, and I think he is looking for a committed relationship. I actually feel if nothing comes of this we'll make good friends. The downside is he is currently about 2 hours away the upside is he moves around a lot, he went to uni in my city so I'm assuming he has friends here and he's got amazing arms.

I'm enjoying emailing him. We'll call him The Arms.

Rejected

Hot stuff replied

"Hi Gretta, I just feel that an hour and 15 drive to hold a proper relationship would be too far. However, if I'm ever in your area I will definitely give you a call".

Oh I've now become a booty call. Serves me right really.

In other news New Guy gets back today after being away with work. I haven't heard from him the whole time he's been a way, I doubt I'll hear from him now he's back.

I just feel very rejected right now.

What is the point?

It's a right faff at the moment. Hot Stuff hasn't checked his online dating profile so in essence he hasn't read the message I left him. Now I want to set up like a Gretta mission. Like Gretta wont stop until she gets Hot Stuff's attention. It sounds pathetic and desperate but why does he make me want to chase him down when he hasn't given me any reason too.

Anyway I think the dating site is shit. I've sent 3 messages over the last 2 days and no one has read any of them so hence no replies. It's got to be crap right?

Best Friend says when I least expect it Hot Stuff will be in touch. I just don't want to miss the boat.

I'm actively looking, he's actively looking, I fancy the pants off him, I mean it just makes sense or maybe I'm just deperate LOL.

Hot Stuff!

So New Guy has backed well and truly off now. No more emails, no more texts and this week he's gone away with work and I don't expect to hear from him at all nor am I bothered. I think I liked the attention he was giving me more than him. In fact I've never actually been that attracted to him. He's got nice eyes and on the odd occasion when we've held the gaze and had eye contact I've fallen deep into the eyes, but he never had the phoar factor.

A friend of mine met a guy recently on an online site and when she was showing pics of him to me I thought "phoooaaarrr" and realised it's been far too long since I thought that about a guy.

So I decided to go back on to an online dating site last night. To be honest I never ever deleted my profile I just haven't been on the site for a while.

So as I was searching through profiles who was I to come across........ HOT STUFF! I'm guessing you don't remember Hot Stuff I wrote about him here. I met him quite a few times last year at different weddings of mutual friends. He does have the phoar factor and I was shocked to find him on the website.

He's handsome, lives about an hour and 15min drive from where I live and he's a bit shy which is why I think he's still single. I sent him a little message on the site but as yet it's not showing he's read it. He's also a friend of mine on facebook and we do have a little banter from time to time but to be honest even though I've tried to get his attention he's never really been bothered enough to give it. I wonder if it's because he's shy or because he's just not interested.

Either way he has the phoar factor and I'm kind of hoping he gets in touch.

Dinner and a movie.

I didn't see New Guy this week although we've still been in contact everyday. He's going away with work next week for I think a week although I'm not sure. I plan on not contacting him while he's gone. I feel although I love the attention it's going backwards not forwards.

Anyway, Jerkboys coming over for dinner and a movie tonight, I just need some jerkboy time at the moment and considering New Guy hasn't asked me to do anything with him all week - why the hell not!