Playing me up

Arrggghhh why are men so frustrating.

So my someone and I are getting on well again, but just as friends because he is still in love with her which I have accepted.

Yet other man, the man that I am working on - grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr... He is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo annoying.

He told me to call him while he was on holiday so I did. He got his mate to answer the phone. His mate told me that he was ill in bed with sunstroke and that he hadn't eaten very much and his friend was contemplating calling a doctor if he didn't get better soon because he had been in bed most of the day. Naturally I start freaking out a little. Then his friend says to me "He has left the caravan now, he asked me to wind you up but I am telling you so you can now wind him up to make his plan back fire"

So I after I hung up I text him saying that I hope he is ok and to drink plenty of fluid. Now I need to come up with a plan to get him back, just haven't figured out what yet!?!?! Any ideas or help would be greatly appreciated.

Seeking Approval!

This morning me and someone had a tiff.. It wasn’t a particularly large tiff. I wanted his approval and he refused to give it to me. I had started telling him that I had been flirting with this close friend that I had expecting him to be happy for me.. He wasn’t!!!! He told me that from what I have said about this guy in the past he really doesn’t like him. I tried to explain to my someone that he makes me smile but he wasn’t at all interested. The conversation ended on a bad note.

In general we always have our tiffs every once in a while in fact if we were to go 3 months without having a little tiff it would be too weird.. I get the feeling that now he is taken everything is fine but he doesn’t want anyone to have me… I have always been there for him in the past when relationships fall through!! Well, I have been single for 3 years and known him for 4. In that time he has had at least 3 short relationships that haven’t gone anywhere and I have always been there to pick up the pieces… I am thinking he is scared that if I get someone he will have no one to fall back on. I can’t wait around anymore… I just can’t be doing it… I so want him to approve of my new found flirting friend but he doesn’t.

I have a cunning plan

I had a long chat with my someone this morning. Him and his girl are doing well, she's so beautiful and she makes him so happy...

My friend that I have been looking at lately in a different light I am still looking at in a different light - trouble is he doesn't see me in the same light at the moment!! Yet, I have taken it upon myself to try to make him. Without even realising it my face lights up when I see him andI get so excited about the next time that I am going to see him.. Which by the way is tomorrow morning! I so can't wait.

Hmmmm watch this space people. Gretta James has a plan.