Bridesmaids...

My advice to anyone getting married or planning a wedding is.....

Just don't have bridesmaids = far too much hassle.

In other news I'M GETTING MARRIED!!!!

On a more serious note choosing bridesmaids was a task I have like 8 people 1 sister and 7 friends that all qualify for bridesmaid status.  Well I couldn't have 8 bridesmaids - cant.afford.it.. So I cut it to 3 but hten I had to choose the 3.  Thankfully my sister had a little girl so my niece will be flower girl and I sadly chopped my sis out not that she minded.  She's been married twice and I wasn't her bridesmaid at either wedding.

The 3 I chose I know will be brilliant 3 close friends but they're all married and all busy.

Bridesmaid 1: Is flexible and willing to do any date I ask for dress trying on
Bridesmaid 2: Is heavily pregnant, works Saturdays and only free on one of her days off in the next 5 weeks.
Bridesmaid 3: had a little girl who starts school and also has  a birth day s

So between bridesmaid 2 & 3 I can't find a date for the 3 of us to get together to go shopping.  It's madness and I'm planning a wedding in 6 months so kind of need to get moving on this.

However, who frigging cares - I'm getting married and if the bridesmaids carry on like this - I'll make them wear black sacks kapow!!