Cruel to be kind
I couldn't do it. Seriously I've been on lots of dates and I've never stressed out like this before and the reason I am is because I know Climber Dude isn't at all what I want and being alone with him would just be giving him the wrong impression. I don't want to be Climber Dude's Jerk Girl. I don't want to give him the impression he has a chance when he doesn't. I know the hell Jerk Boy has put me through and I needed to stop this before it got started.
So I sent him a text message:
"Hi Climber Dude. I'm really tired and have a bit of a sore throat, sorry but I am not going to make it tonight"
I am tired and I do have a slight sore throat. It's not really sore enough to warrant an excuse but I just can't do it. I can't be Jerk Girl. He may already view me as that after that text but I tell you what I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
So I sent him a text message:
"Hi Climber Dude. I'm really tired and have a bit of a sore throat, sorry but I am not going to make it tonight"
I am tired and I do have a slight sore throat. It's not really sore enough to warrant an excuse but I just can't do it. I can't be Jerk Girl. He may already view me as that after that text but I tell you what I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
posted by Gretta James at 5:34 AM
3 Comments:
I think you did the right thing in my humble opinion.
Even if he knew it was a lie he should've gotten the message. He'd be a dumbass if he didn't.
Glad to know you feel better, babe. *hugz*
Geez Gretta you really have to find yourself another hobby
Find yourself, Loose your way...
someone unexpected will come along.
You are obviously smart and have a world of good going for you.
Stop putting yourself in places you don't want to be.
I understand how easy it is.
I have been there.
I know that pain.
Get to know & love Gretta a little better. Trust me
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