Sunday, August 24, 2008

The Struggles that are..

I'm unsure if you'll be pleased to know or not but... We've made up. It's still going to take a bit of time to regain trust but we've made up and things feel good for the time being.

I'd just like to say it's really tough going from being single into a relationship, I for one am finding it very difficult. You find yourself struggling with identity, and how to be, and you even find yourself having to make polite chitchat with friends that aren't necessarily friends you'd choose but friends they choose when sometimes you'd just prefer it to be the 2 of you.

It can be hard work. There are lots of single people out there who would love to be in a relationship, but I'll tell you this, it's not easy, it takes time, commitment, consideration, and lots of flexibility. And for some that's hard. Darn hard.

However, sticking with it and getting over that struggles you find that you care about that person, you want to share with them and you want to embrace the things they enjoy and when you do that, life just feels a little less strugglesome.

Adjustment and Balance, will always take time.

1 Comments:

Blogger Scotty said...

Glad you're feeling better Gretta :)

6:36 PM  

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