Can someone please explain what the deal is?

Here's the more lengthy update of the past few days.

I was online on Wednesday early afternoon and Climber Dude comes online, we chat for a bit and it turns out he's on a late shift! I tell him if he wants to pop over for a cuppa before going to work then he can.

He turns up but when he's here he suggests watching a movie as he has time. So, we watch a movie together. He doesn't try anything and neither do I.

My mum and dad decide to pop over to check on me, my mum tried checking on me a few days earlier and I'd gone into work for a few hours and she wasn't happy with me, sometimes I feel like they treat me like a kid. Anyway Climber Dude just hits it off straight away with my parents so much so that I know my mum is going to give me the third degree about him "gretta he's a nice boy" blah blah blah.

Anyway, so it was a really nice afternoon and he goes off to work.

On Thursday, he calls me (knowing that I'm still of sick).

Climber Dude: What are you up to today?

Gretta: Nothing

Climber Dude: can I come over and watch another DVD with you

Gretta: Sure.

So, he comes over we watch another DVD, then we decide to go to a restaurant for dinner, then he invites himself back to mine to watch another DVD. By this time there was definite flirting by him and I thought I'd offer him a massage. He declined!!!!!!!!!! I felt like a right idiot, we were flirting, I was sure something was going to happen, my massages are amazing Jerk Boy tells me so, and he turns it down. After all that why? why? why?

I think I can safely say no guy has ever flirted with me so much so not to follow something through and once again nothing happened between me and Climber Dude and I'm left feeling silly. I told Best Friend about it (we sorted all that gooseberry single stuff out too) and she was like

Best Friend: Gretta!!! I can't believe you offered him a massage.

Gretta: Well, if I thought for one second he'd decline I wouldn't have offered.

Best Friend: You're hilarious, you should just relax and let what happens and happens.

I know she's right, I'm just cringing about it all now, I don't think anyone has ever declined one of my massages and in that moment I definitely wasn't expecting him too haha, I just find it too funny talk about embarrassing yourself. Anyway, he's gone away with a mate this weekend to climb a mountain in Wales somewhere. So, at least it gives me time to not feel like such a fool.

Last night I went round a friends house and Jerk Boy was there and Jerk Boy gave me the most amazing head massage I've ever had. He's not so good at the shoulders but the head, oh he was good at the head. And that's another thing, the more Climber Dude confuses me the more I seek attention from Jerk Boy! I just can't win.